SIGNS OF SPIRITUAL CHEMISTRY IN ASTROLOGY

It's been a while since I just wrote about astrology, today is such a day. So, this is an interesting type of attraction in chemistry its one where there are no words to describe it, it is that feeling that you are just somehow meant to be together. So, this is how I see it in astrology if you and a particular person have that spiritual chemistry. I will mention things that you may not understand, but we live in a time where there is no limit to information, it is up to you to find information and explanation of what you do not understand.

So, the first thing you want to be looking forward to seeing if you have that spiritual connection with a particular person is you want to look at the planet Saturn. Saturn is that point in our chart that indicates our karma, Saturn is that loop that we all go through and we feel like we cant quite get out of this karmic loop and we suffer a lot because of the consequences of things that happens our lives. Our actions and consequences they are repeated and there is a pattern and we feel a little bit stuck.

Venus and Saturn opposite

If you have within a synastry chart a Venus opposite Saturn with you and a particular person this is a really strong indicator of a karmic connection. Venus and Saturn will have to be in the opposite signs, and you have to keep the orbs no more than 8 degrees. This placement is showing that this pattern that the Saturn person feels like they have always been going through once they meet the Venus person its like the Venus person just gives them the love and the warmth and stability and the security for them to feel like “oh it is the perfect timing for me to meet someone in my life, at the point in my life where I am getting out of my karma or they are helping me in some ways to ease my karma”. That feeling is coming from the Saturn person the Venus person in other hand may feel this much heavier than the Saturn person. Meaning that the Venus person may not like what they are getting themselves into. If the two of them can kind of overcome the initial stages of this sort of heavy feelings that they have for one another they might find that they come around again and if they do come around again it is very likely that this is a very very strong bond almost unbreakable.

North node in a connection with the other persons sun or the moon

You want to see if you have a north node connection, so the sign of the south node which is opposite the north node is south of our comfort zone and the place in our life where it is natural for us to express out our comfort. As with all things in astrology things come in a balance of yin and yang so the opposite of that south node is the north node. North node is where you want to move towards in life, and for to move towards your north node you have to step out of your comfort zone and moving closer to where you need to go in order to evolve and become a more holistic person. If someone have their sign conjunct with your north node as well as their moon (keep this up to 8 degrees). For example if you seeing a person who has their sun conjunct with your north node, this person really becomes a teacher for you for too bring out your qualities for to develop in order to express your self better and move better into the life path you are supposed to be on. If you meet someone who has their moon conjunct to your north node. This person sort of really nurtures the evolutionary growth of your life, this person will really care and support you in what you are trying to do in your life to be in alignment with your evolutionary journey. This is beautiful to have in synastry.

Sun and Pluto aspect

This would be Sun conjunct Pluto or Sun square Pluto, especially these two the orbs have to be probably like five degrees maximum, the conjunction you can go a little bit more. But what really happening here is this is a hard transformation that is going to happen with the Sun person. The Pluto person when they meet the sun person whether this is a conjunction or the square is going to immediately feel you, Pluto is the furthest planet from the Sun. the sun is the hottest brightest and Pluto is the darkest and furthest planet away from the sun so if Pluto and the Sun meet up the Pluto person feels like that cold exterior shell they have to protect themselves with sort of gets warmed up. And the iciness (it is like an ice breaker) gets warmed up by the Sun and their deepest darkest desires and things light up because the Sun person is lighting it up and if it is as conjunction they really like it. But with the square the Sun person sort of going to fight back to the Pluto person meaning that when the Pluto person sort of brings out their darker motivations and things the Sun person may light that up at first but then when they start to see the Pluto bringing these things out and if the are not plutonic in their nature at all they are going to recede back a little bit and that’s going to cause a lot of tension because the Pluto wants more and Pluto person might resort to control and manipulate the Sun person. If the Sun person is strong in their Sun element, they can study enough boundaries so the two of them can be teaching each other certain things. The Pluto person can be teaching the sun person how to step in to their darker side or their more deeper motivations of why they might do things and sort of transform their life path, their personality/identity and the Sun person will understand that they are not who they thought they were and find that there is another side to them. This is like a soulmate kind of a connection. The Sun person can definitely teach the Pluto person about their own ability to control themselves or not, so it is dark deep transformative teaching that’s very faded and very interesting.

Vertex

If you have in your chart and your partners chart a vertex conjunct on the other persons ascendant (this conjunction has to be pretty close) because the Vertex works in transits with the full moon of the new moon, eclipses. So, if you find that there is a full moon or a new moon eclipse that happens in the sign of your vertex and in the sign of your partners ascendant. If you already with this person and you trace back the date in which you meet you partner this will tell you that this is a fated meeting. So let’s say for example that your partner has arising in Scorpio at 27 degrees and you have a vertex in Scorpio at 28 degrees so you are going to have the same ascendant and vertex, lets say that there just happens to be a new moon in Scorpio and the moon and the Sun are around 27 and 28 degrees. If you are already together with somebody and if you trace back the day that you meet you may find that you have met up because of this Vertex new moon, full moon connection. I hope this making sense for you I know it is not easy, but you must do some work to learn this language. You cant really use the Vertex to predict when will meet anybody and it is not like you are going to meet a person with Scorpio rising every time it is a full moon or new moon but if you are in a partnership and you feel like when you met your partner it was really fated you can trace back to that day and there might be a connection there. The ascendant is the persons’ physical body and life path and life journey so what’s happening is that we are actually putting the ascendant person’s physical body and life journey in alignment with the vertex persons fated-“ness” point. So, it is sort of the ascendant person is coming into the vertex person’s life during a very powerful energetic new moon and full moon.

Moon and Venus trine, sextile, (BI) Quintile to Pluto

This is going to create an ability to have a very deep transformative type of intimacy. The conjunction sometimes will feel like that, but it depends on other things sometimes it will just cause a lot of resentments. The trine, sextile, (BI) Quintile are really transformative energy for both Pluto and Venus and moon person. With the moon the Pluto person is really have a soft way of allowing the moon person to change their past conditionings regarding trust and intimacy, things that may be blocking them in the past or ways being in habitual patterns that they have outgrown. This is because the Pluto person is able to get really close with the moon psychology in a way that it is not disturbing. With Venus the Pluto person is doing this to the love nature of the Venus person, pushing them to dive deeper into more than just attraction or sensual pleasures but until really deep soul connection of admitting what they really want with regards to their love nature to sort of feel very connected to somebody. At the same time the connection is love and obsession not control and manipulation because a lot of times with very deep intimacy we resort to control, manipulation we fear we going to lose the other person. With trine, sextile, (BI) Quintile the partners are working on these issues of jealousy and manipulation in a way that both of them are understanding that when you want to get some real love you have to not control or manipulate the other person. The trust that has been created between the two of you is so strong that the intimacy is so rare, and the connection is so deep that it can turn into real deep love rather than obsession. With Quintile and (BI) Quintile to both moon and Pluto and Venus and Pluto the way that the two people are going to transform each other is going to be very fun. There is going to be a very fun flavor to it they are going to be a bit more creative in the way that they are going to do that transformation. With all that being said, this connection is like a real understanding of a person that bring out their dark side and the other person just has a way of creatively turning your darkness into a transformative process, so it is really beautiful and I love it. But not the square or opposition between moon and Pluto that is not funny at all and the same things goes for those aspects between Venus and Pluto, all I can say is good luck.

Moon trine, sextile, to Neptune (not conjunction, opposition and not the square)

Conjunction, opposition and square is just going to create a high level of idealization feelings like you have got the one but trine and sextile can really indicate that there is an unconditional love here and there’s an acceptance here between the two of them especially from the Neptune person to the moon person accepting their everything and turning their weird stuff, darkness longings, yearnings and their feelings of insecurity. The Neptune person will love them unconditionally for that and is willing to do a lot and this is a sacrifice kind of love that is actually real and not like the conjunction, opposition and square those aspect is going to make you sacrifice and then you are going to wish something in return and is not going to come back to you. Trine and sextile is great the two of you can be in the safe bubble of love together of Neptune love. The spiritual connection here really, really strong it is almost like you can understand each other, read each other’s wants and need without even having to say anything like you just intuitively know what the other person might want or need, and there is no explanation why that is. Its like Pluto when you talk and it is going very deep but with Neptune it is like a sixth sense of knowing that this is what they want and need and this is who they are and I am loving and allowing them for it.

Lilith (black moon Lilith h21 and h13)

The last thing I want to mention with regards to this spiritual connection between you and a particular partner is you want to look for Lilith. With regards to who Lilith is there is a whole story about her. In a woman’s chart she is that part of a woman that if you touch that part of her in a wrong way she will fight for her equality and she can be ruthless and she may unleash a very wild sexual side just to prove her point. But if you touch that part of her nicely you see an equality that she brings that its fair and a primitive wild sexual side that’s very alluring and attractive but not forceful or destructive. In the man’s chart the sign will tell you the type of woman that he feels that sexual feminine side he can never resist, it is alluring, attractive “that wild” it ignites a wild part of his feminine side. But he also really fears this part of this particular type of woman because she can be too powerful for him to handle. So, Lilith contacts in synastry with easy aspects are good so the trine, sextile between one person’s Lilith and the other persons Ascendant, Sun, moon, Venus, Mars and I think mercury and Jupiter as well because Jupiter expand everything it touches is going to be very good and you can keep the orbs up to 3-5 degrees that would be okay. This is great because is more than just sexual because the two people’s ability to bring their deepest darkest desires out is more of a soulful connection it is like saying “whatever you got in there in your hidden box of treasures just unleash it and I will nurture it”. This is a liberating process that you two people have on each other with the easy aspects. With harder aspects like the square or even the conjunction or the opposition between Lilith and the other persons personal planets this not really great. The conjunction may be okay it will really depend if the Lilith person has a lot of Lilith issues or not but the square and the opposition no because this is like you are feeling this fated-ness and connection at first but then you are not actually compatible in terms of your wild nature so therefore when the other person actually feels safe to bring out their wild side whatever that might be the other person is going to be like whoa! This can lead to a lot of resentment between the two.